YOUR FRIEND
1. Does she ever drink or get high alone?
2. Does she drink or get high regularly on weekends or before, during, or after school?
3. Is it hard for her to have a good time if she's not drinking or getting high?
4. Has she ever blacked out or forgotten what happened while she was drinking or getting high?
5. Has she found herself having to drink or use more than before in order to feel drunk or high?
6. Has she ever made the decision to drink or smoke less than usual - or not to drink or smoke at all - and failed to do it?
7. Has she ever lied about her drinking or drug use?
8. Has she ever said she feels guilty about her drinking or drug use?
9. Has she seemed more run down, depressed, or hopeless lately?
YOUR FRIEND'S FRIEND
10. Does your friend hang out with people who plan weekends or outings around drinking or getting high?
11. Does he hang out only with people who drink or get high, and who know where to score alcohol or dope?
12. Does he talk a lot about drinking and getting high-how messed up he was on Saturday, how wasted he's going to get at the next party, etc.?
13. Has he ever pressured you or anyone else to drink or get high?
14. Does he avoid friends who are living a drug-free lifestyle, so he can go get wasted instead?
YOUR FRIEND AND THE WORLD
15. Has he ever been in trouble - with family or at work or school, or even with the police - because of drinking or drug use?
16. Has anyone - friend, family member, co-worker, teacher - ever told him they think he should cut back on his drinking or drug use?
17. Has anyone ever said they were angry with him about his drinking or drug use?
18. Has he started to lose interest in things that used to mean a lot to him -schoolwork, sports, hobbies, or friends who don't drink or use drugs?
19. Has he put himself or other people at risk while drunk or stoned - driving, or having unprotected sex, for example?
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